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Fertility Sex: How To Spice Up the Bedroom While Trying To Conceive

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You and your partner have made the important decision of having a baby. Naturally, making a baby entails sex. During this particular period in your life, sex may change. After all, you are getting under the sheets for a specific purpose — conceiving. While trying to conceive, “TTC”, many of us get stressed and anxious. Fertility tracking, strict scheduling, and self-induced pressure can take away the joy and excitement of sex. However, sex is a key component of life and also your relationship. It shouldn’t be awkward, stressful, or feel like “work”. As they say, it’s not all about the end result, but the journey. If you wish to improve your intimacy and make sex fun again while TTC, keep on reading!

Loosen up a bit

Conception is all about timing. In case you didn’t know…Nope, you are not 100% fertile at all times. You are most fertile at the time of ovulation (when your ovaries release an egg). This typically happens 12 to 14 days after your period if your monthly cycle is regular. If you’re hoping to get pregnant, ovulation is the best time to have unprotected sex with your partner.

While this is extremely useful knowledge, resist the urge to make a strict sex schedule. Sex should be fun, enjoyable, and intimate. Being “on the clock” makes it feel like work and may even kill libido. Have sex at different times of the day or whenever the two of you feel like it. And don’t be afraid to be spontaneous! Be playful, flirty, and creative. The idea is to have a good time.

Talk about it

Communication is a key element in healthy relationships. Sex is also included! Talk to your partner about your needs and ask them about their needs. Is there a position you enjoy more? A fantasy you would like to enact? A particular toy you want to try? What’s working and what isn’t? All of these questions are important and the two of you have to voice them. Perhaps, talking about sex may come naturally for you. Or, it can be that the topic is too embarrassing. If the latter is true, that’s OK — we aren’t judging here. But please bear in mind that sex is a natural thing. There’s nothing to be ashamed of. Plus, this conversation will benefit the two of you. And hey! You are about to welcome a child into this world. There are many embarrassing conversations to come, so why not get some practice in the meantime?

Discover what you are into

Sex is more enjoyable if you know what you like and what turns you on. This may seem like a no-brainer. But, the truth is that many people don’t know their bodies, desires, and, in general, what they are into. Our culture is not comfortable with the most basic aspects of sex. So, many people may have grown up in environments where sex is seen as a negative, shameful, or unimportant thing. In addition, there are lots of myths and misconceptions out there. Nowadays, however, we are advocating for the idea that sex is nothing but positive and enjoyable for all genders.

So, take these principles and really get to know yourself! If you don’t know your likes and dislikes, don’t worry! It’s never too late to discover them. An excellent way to do this is by engaging in solo play. Take proper time to explore your body. Let your hands wander freely through your body and be aware of your reactions. Being alone will lessen stress or performance anxiety. And, as you discover what you are into, you can communicate it to your partner.

Say yes to foreplay

It’s easy to skip foreplay, especially when you’re focused on your mission of TTC or caught up in raw passion. This shouldn’t be the case though. Whenever possible, try to engage in lots and lots of foreplay. Studies show that only 18% of women can orgasm from penetration alone. So, encourage your partner to use their hands, fingers, mouths, or a combination of all. Foreplay can help you orgasm, and orgasm helps you enjoy sex — anticipate sex even! Remember: the idea is to make it something fun, not “work”.

Get creative

Experiment, experiment, experiment. Get your creative juices flowing (pun intended) and try sex toys, lingerie, role play, fantasies, etc. This infuses thrill and fun in the bedroom. Of course, it’s important to have an honest conversation with your partner first. To make sure you enjoy yourselves, you have to be on the same page. That is, understanding each other’s fancies, desires, and limits. Consent and empathy are hot.

Change the scenery

Having sex in the same bed or the same room is completely fine. Yet, if sex feels like part of the routine or a bit dull, it’s time to change locations. Opt for your sofa, kitchen, or bathtub. Be sexy, but also sensible. You don’t want any slippery accidents, stains on your precious furniture, or an unexpected onlooker! If possible, go to a fancy place — a hotel, cabin, or rental.

Bring romance back

Speaking of hotels and fancy places…bring romantic nights back. With all the hustle and bustle of work and/or trying to conceive, many of us forget about romance. Remember when you used to date? Can you recall the build-up of desire on a night out? It’s time to bring that back! Organize a candlelight dinner or movie night. This can lessen everyday stress, TTC stress, and also revive the thrill of early dating.

Connect with your passion

Discover all you need to know about sex right here at BeginninIg.com! Check out our Passion library catalog for everything sex-related! Plus, you can fuel the fire of your desire by listening to our passion sound journeys.

Sources

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/0092623X.2017.1346530 https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/how-many-days-between-periods#:~:text=Ovulation%20usually%20occurs%20between%20days,mature%20egg%20for%20potential%20fertilization
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Fertility Sex: How To Spice Up the Bedroom While Trying To Conceive

Passion

You and your partner have made the important decision of having a baby. Naturally, making a baby entails sex. During this particular period in your life, sex may change. After all, you are getting under the sheets for a specific purpose — conceiving. While trying to conceive, “TTC”, many of us get stressed and anxious. Fertility tracking, strict scheduling, and self-induced pressure can take away the joy and excitement of sex. However, sex is a key component of life and also your relationship. It shouldn’t be awkward, stressful, or feel like “work”. As they say, it’s not all about the end result, but the journey. If you wish to improve your intimacy and make sex fun again while TTC, keep on reading!

Loosen up a bit

Conception is all about timing. In case you didn’t know…Nope, you are not 100% fertile at all times. You are most fertile at the time of ovulation (when your ovaries release an egg). This typically happens 12 to 14 days after your period if your monthly cycle is regular. If you’re hoping to get pregnant, ovulation is the best time to have unprotected sex with your partner.

While this is extremely useful knowledge, resist the urge to make a strict sex schedule. Sex should be fun, enjoyable, and intimate. Being “on the clock” makes it feel like work and may even kill libido. Have sex at different times of the day or whenever the two of you feel like it. And don’t be afraid to be spontaneous! Be playful, flirty, and creative. The idea is to have a good time.

Talk about it

Communication is a key element in healthy relationships. Sex is also included! Talk to your partner about your needs and ask them about their needs. Is there a position you enjoy more? A fantasy you would like to enact? A particular toy you want to try? What’s working and what isn’t? All of these questions are important and the two of you have to voice them. Perhaps, talking about sex may come naturally for you. Or, it can be that the topic is too embarrassing. If the latter is true, that’s OK — we aren’t judging here. But please bear in mind that sex is a natural thing. There’s nothing to be ashamed of. Plus, this conversation will benefit the two of you. And hey! You are about to welcome a child into this world. There are many embarrassing conversations to come, so why not get some practice in the meantime?

Discover what you are into

Sex is more enjoyable if you know what you like and what turns you on. This may seem like a no-brainer. But, the truth is that many people don’t know their bodies, desires, and, in general, what they are into. Our culture is not comfortable with the most basic aspects of sex. So, many people may have grown up in environments where sex is seen as a negative, shameful, or unimportant thing. In addition, there are lots of myths and misconceptions out there. Nowadays, however, we are advocating for the idea that sex is nothing but positive and enjoyable for all genders.

So, take these principles and really get to know yourself! If you don’t know your likes and dislikes, don’t worry! It’s never too late to discover them. An excellent way to do this is by engaging in solo play. Take proper time to explore your body. Let your hands wander freely through your body and be aware of your reactions. Being alone will lessen stress or performance anxiety. And, as you discover what you are into, you can communicate it to your partner.

Say yes to foreplay

It’s easy to skip foreplay, especially when you’re focused on your mission of TTC or caught up in raw passion. This shouldn’t be the case though. Whenever possible, try to engage in lots and lots of foreplay. Studies show that only 18% of women can orgasm from penetration alone. So, encourage your partner to use their hands, fingers, mouths, or a combination of all. Foreplay can help you orgasm, and orgasm helps you enjoy sex — anticipate sex even! Remember: the idea is to make it something fun, not “work”.

Get creative

Experiment, experiment, experiment. Get your creative juices flowing (pun intended) and try sex toys, lingerie, role play, fantasies, etc. This infuses thrill and fun in the bedroom. Of course, it’s important to have an honest conversation with your partner first. To make sure you enjoy yourselves, you have to be on the same page. That is, understanding each other’s fancies, desires, and limits. Consent and empathy are hot.

Change the scenery

Having sex in the same bed or the same room is completely fine. Yet, if sex feels like part of the routine or a bit dull, it’s time to change locations. Opt for your sofa, kitchen, or bathtub. Be sexy, but also sensible. You don’t want any slippery accidents, stains on your precious furniture, or an unexpected onlooker! If possible, go to a fancy place — a hotel, cabin, or rental.

Bring romance back

Speaking of hotels and fancy places…bring romantic nights back. With all the hustle and bustle of work and/or trying to conceive, many of us forget about romance. Remember when you used to date? Can you recall the build-up of desire on a night out? It’s time to bring that back! Organize a candlelight dinner or movie night. This can lessen everyday stress, TTC stress, and also revive the thrill of early dating.

Connect with your passion

Discover all you need to know about sex right here at BeginninIg.com! Check out our Passion library catalog for everything sex-related! Plus, you can fuel the fire of your desire by listening to our passion sound journeys.

Sources

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/0092623X.2017.1346530 https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/how-many-days-between-periods#:~:text=Ovulation%20usually%20occurs%20between%20days,mature%20egg%20for%20potential%20fertilization
Fertility Sex: How To Spice Up the Bedroom While Trying To Conceive

Fertility Sex: How To Spice Up the Bedroom While Trying To Conceive

Fertility

You and your partner have made the important decision of having a baby. Naturally, making a baby entails sex. During this particular period in your life, sex may change. After all, you are getting under the sheets for a specific purpose — conceiving. While trying to conceive, “TTC”, many of us get stressed and anxious. Fertility tracking, strict scheduling, and self-induced pressure can take away the joy and excitement of sex. However, sex is a key component of life and also your relationship. It shouldn’t be awkward, stressful, or feel like “work”. As they say, it’s not all about the end result, but the journey. If you wish to improve your intimacy and make sex fun again while TTC, keep on reading!

Loosen up a bit

Conception is all about timing. In case you didn’t know…Nope, you are not 100% fertile at all times. You are most fertile at the time of ovulation (when your ovaries release an egg). This typically happens 12 to 14 days after your period if your monthly cycle is regular. If you’re hoping to get pregnant, ovulation is the best time to have unprotected sex with your partner.

While this is extremely useful knowledge, resist the urge to make a strict sex schedule. Sex should be fun, enjoyable, and intimate. Being “on the clock” makes it feel like work and may even kill libido. Have sex at different times of the day or whenever the two of you feel like it. And don’t be afraid to be spontaneous! Be playful, flirty, and creative. The idea is to have a good time.

Talk about it

Communication is a key element in healthy relationships. Sex is also included! Talk to your partner about your needs and ask them about their needs. Is there a position you enjoy more? A fantasy you would like to enact? A particular toy you want to try? What’s working and what isn’t? All of these questions are important and the two of you have to voice them. Perhaps, talking about sex may come naturally for you. Or, it can be that the topic is too embarrassing. If the latter is true, that’s OK — we aren’t judging here. But please bear in mind that sex is a natural thing. There’s nothing to be ashamed of. Plus, this conversation will benefit the two of you. And hey! You are about to welcome a child into this world. There are many embarrassing conversations to come, so why not get some practice in the meantime?

Discover what you are into

Sex is more enjoyable if you know what you like and what turns you on. This may seem like a no-brainer. But, the truth is that many people don’t know their bodies, desires, and, in general, what they are into. Our culture is not comfortable with the most basic aspects of sex. So, many people may have grown up in environments where sex is seen as a negative, shameful, or unimportant thing. In addition, there are lots of myths and misconceptions out there. Nowadays, however, we are advocating for the idea that sex is nothing but positive and enjoyable for all genders.

So, take these principles and really get to know yourself! If you don’t know your likes and dislikes, don’t worry! It’s never too late to discover them. An excellent way to do this is by engaging in solo play. Take proper time to explore your body. Let your hands wander freely through your body and be aware of your reactions. Being alone will lessen stress or performance anxiety. And, as you discover what you are into, you can communicate it to your partner.

Say yes to foreplay

It’s easy to skip foreplay, especially when you’re focused on your mission of TTC or caught up in raw passion. This shouldn’t be the case though. Whenever possible, try to engage in lots and lots of foreplay. Studies show that only 18% of women can orgasm from penetration alone. So, encourage your partner to use their hands, fingers, mouths, or a combination of all. Foreplay can help you orgasm, and orgasm helps you enjoy sex — anticipate sex even! Remember: the idea is to make it something fun, not “work”.

Get creative

Experiment, experiment, experiment. Get your creative juices flowing (pun intended) and try sex toys, lingerie, role play, fantasies, etc. This infuses thrill and fun in the bedroom. Of course, it’s important to have an honest conversation with your partner first. To make sure you enjoy yourselves, you have to be on the same page. That is, understanding each other’s fancies, desires, and limits. Consent and empathy are hot.

Change the scenery

Having sex in the same bed or the same room is completely fine. Yet, if sex feels like part of the routine or a bit dull, it’s time to change locations. Opt for your sofa, kitchen, or bathtub. Be sexy, but also sensible. You don’t want any slippery accidents, stains on your precious furniture, or an unexpected onlooker! If possible, go to a fancy place — a hotel, cabin, or rental.

Bring romance back

Speaking of hotels and fancy places…bring romantic nights back. With all the hustle and bustle of work and/or trying to conceive, many of us forget about romance. Remember when you used to date? Can you recall the build-up of desire on a night out? It’s time to bring that back! Organize a candlelight dinner or movie night. This can lessen everyday stress, TTC stress, and also revive the thrill of early dating.

Connect with your passion

Discover all you need to know about sex right here at BeginninIg.com! Check out our Passion library catalog for everything sex-related! Plus, you can fuel the fire of your desire by listening to our passion sound journeys.

Sources

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/0092623X.2017.1346530 https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/how-many-days-between-periods#:~:text=Ovulation%20usually%20occurs%20between%20days,mature%20egg%20for%20potential%20fertilization

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